Ever wondered why something happened to you or why you ever met a particular person?
Well I believe everything happens for a reason. People come into your life for a purpose. Sometimes it's for a particular reason, sometimes it's a chapter and sometimes it's forever.
Knowing which is which is probably near impossible at times.
Reason
That person is here to meet a need. You may have expressed this outwardly or maybe only internally, but the universe has answered you.
They are here to assist you through a hard time, to give you guidance and support and help you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They might seem like a godsend and they are indeed.
They are here for the reason you need them to be.
Then without any wrong doing by you this person will say or do something to end the relationship. Sometimes they die, sometimes they walk out of your life and sometimes they act out and force you to take a stand. This is because the reason has been fulfilled, their work is done and it's time to move on.
Chapter
This person is here because it's time for you need to share, grow or learn.
They might bring you an experience, make you laugh, teach you something you have never done before or just give you an incredible amount of joy.
Believe it cause it's real, but only for a small chapter of your life.
Forever
Relationships that last a lifetime are here because that person is here to teach you a lesson that will take that long or longer to learn.
These are things that you should build on in order to give yourself a solid emotional environment.
Accept the lesson, love the person in whatever way you can and use what you have learnt in all other relationships and areas of life.
These were written to apply positively, only to positive experiences, but I'm sure the same can be said for the negative parts of your life.
The difference is the people that give you bad experiences are not there to give you a lesson that you have consciously asked the universe to provide. But accept the experiences any way you can and try to learn from them.
If someone is in your life for good and they do not seem to be providing any positive influence in a way that would fit under the forever heading above, then it is highly likely the two of you have some unfinished business from a past life. Either that or they have already served their purpose in your life and you have simply refused to let them go.
I could go on, but I will leave it there for now.
I will just leave you with this thought : They say that love is blind and if that's true then friendship is clairvoyant.
