People Come Into Your Life For A Purpose

Ever wondered why something happened to you or why you ever met a particular person?

Well I believe everything happens for a reason. People come into your life for a purpose. Sometimes it's for a particular reason, sometimes it's a chapter and sometimes it's forever.

Knowing which is which is probably near impossible at times.

Reason
That person is here to meet a need. You may have expressed this outwardly or maybe only internally, but the universe has answered you.
They are here to assist you through a hard time, to give you guidance and support and help you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They might seem like a godsend and they are indeed.
They are here for the reason you need them to be.
Then without any wrong doing by you this person will say or do something to end the relationship. Sometimes they die, sometimes they walk out of your life and sometimes they act out and force you to take a stand. This is because the reason has been fulfilled, their work is done and it's time to move on.

Chapter
This person is here because it's time for you need to share, grow or learn.
They might bring you an experience, make you laugh, teach you something you have never done before or just give you an incredible amount of joy.
Believe it cause it's real, but only for a small chapter of your life.

Forever
Relationships that last a lifetime  are here because that person is here to teach you a lesson that will take that long or longer to learn.
These are things that you should build  on in order to give yourself a solid emotional environment.
Accept the lesson, love the person in whatever way you can and use what you have learnt in all other relationships and areas of life.

These were written to apply positively, only to positive experiences, but I'm sure the same can be said for the negative parts of your life.
The difference is the people that give you bad experiences are not there to give you a lesson that you have consciously asked the universe to provide. But accept the experiences any way you can and try to learn from them.

If someone is in your life for good and they do not seem to be providing any positive influence in a way that would fit under the forever heading above, then it is highly likely the two of you have some unfinished business from a past life. Either that or they have already served their purpose in your life and you have simply refused to let them go.

I could go on, but I will leave it there for now.
I will just leave you with this thought : They say that love is blind and if that's true then friendship is clairvoyant.

CISPA

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Riddle

I'm looking over your shoulder,
But not standing behind you.
I've read your emails,
But didn't need your log in details.
I know where you live,
But I'm not stalking you.
I'm spending your money,
But I'm not a friend or relative.
To me you are just a statistic.
Who am I?

Life

Hey folks or possibly nobody.
I'm in a bad place right now and need to share. I feel like what's the point of life? I mean why am I even here? I get it, life is a lesson. But what is the point of my life beyond that basic thing?
I don't know how to find the answer to that. I'm a creative person and I like to create. It might be fun to even make a business from that somehow. That's the tricky bit. I can't find employment and am bored sitting at home. I don't know how or where to focus my attention. Sure I have kids and I nurture them, but I sometimes wonder if I'm doing so great at that. I just want to curl up and cry and never stop. That sounds like depression but I don't have time for that rubbish. I need another purpose in life. Being a single parent is not fulfilling enough. I could drink alcohol and temporarily feel better. The solution to life is out there. I just need to find it. It's not in a pill or the bottom of a bottle of rum. It comes from within. The black pit of despair in my heart has sucked it up that's all.